If one is not speaking well of some particular person and is instead
speaking poorly of them, the first thing to do is to make that
particular person anonymous.
Then, if the story still holds relevance, that is to say, if the point one wished to make is still of importance without shaming that particular person, then it is acceptable to speak it.
One ought only, behind another's back, speak good of them, if they are to be named.
Bringing up bad conduct, choices, words and personality of a person should only be talked of if there is some lesson to be learnt from it and by doing so, no person need be shamed, for such a thing is a shameful act in itself.
Love from Bambi x
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The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about at all...
ReplyDeleteDon't disagree with you there. It's important to make a difference, to leave an imprint on people.I would love to think that I do stir people in some way, enough for them to even want to mention me to others.. however for the right reasons!! :)
DeleteIt's a beautiful woman's fate to be the subject of conversation where ever she goes. When I like people immensely I never tell their names to anyone. It is like surrendering a part of them. I have grown to love secrecy. It is perfectly monstrous,the way people go about nowadays saying things against one behind one's back that are absolutely and entirely true.
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ReplyDelete"I would love to think that I do stir people in some way"
ReplyDeleteBambi, you're such an inspiration to me, I still can't figure out how do you do YOU (obviously you don't do anything, you're just being yourself ha - and that makes you even more amazing!), if you were a superhero you'd definitely be something like a Magnet Woman, or Bambi Gravity haha :) So inspiring! Thank youuuu! :)
Ahh these are incredibly kind words! They mean so very much to me.
ReplyDelete<3 Stay inspired and interested in this world, darling xxx