If one is not speaking well of some particular person and is instead
speaking poorly of them, the first thing to do is to make that
particular person anonymous.
Then, if the story still holds relevance, that is to say, if the point one wished to make is still of importance without shaming that particular person, then it is acceptable to speak it.
One ought only, behind another's back, speak good of them, if they are to be named.
Bringing up bad conduct, choices, words and personality of a person should only be talked of if there is some lesson to be learnt from it and by doing so, no person need be shamed, for such a thing is a shameful act in itself.
Love from Bambi x
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